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Unanswered LinkedIn messages: who is waiting on whom

Drop messages.csv from your LinkedIn export. Every conversation that stopped without an answer becomes a dot: above the line they wrote last, below it you did.

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What the export can't do

The chart is true for one morning

An export is a photograph. Answer three people tonight and the file still says they are waiting. To see where things stand you request another archive and wait again.

LinkedAsk is a Chrome extension that records the profiles you visit, the invites you send and who views your profile, from the day you install it. Save a person in LinkedAsk and they get a card with every visit, invite and message between you, marked when it is your turn to write.

messages.csv

Every message up to the day you exported. Nothing after it, no read status and no reactions.

Saved people in LinkedAsk, from install day

The people you picked, with visits, invites, replies and profile views, and a mark on who is waiting for you.

How to read the chart

LinkedIn's inbox sorts by the latest message and filters by unread. It has no view for messages you never answered, or for people who never answered you. Your data export does hold that answer: every row of messages.csv says who wrote, to whom, and when.

The tool groups the rows into conversations and looks at the last message of each. If the other person sent it, the dot sits above the line and the reply is on you. If you sent it, the dot sits below and you are the one waiting. The further right a dot is, the longer the silence. The scale is stretched so the first year takes about half the width.

  • Ringed amber dots come first: their last message ends with a question.
  • Bigger dots are longer conversations.
  • Hollow dots are first messages that got nothing back, in either direction.

How to see who has not replied on LinkedIn

LinkedIn has no list of people who have not answered you. This is what its own screens show.

  • Unread. In Messaging, the Unread filter shows messages you have not opened. Open a conversation and the unread mark is removed, whether or not you wrote back.
  • The other filters. Jobs, My Connections, Starred and InMail, plus the inbox categories Focused, Other, Archived and Spam. The phone app adds Drafts. None of them means "waiting for a reply".
  • Sent invitations. For connection requests, click My Network, open Manage invitations and choose the Sent tab. In the app it is My Network, then Invitations, then Sent. The tab holds the invitations you sent, and you can withdraw any that are still waiting for a response.

So for messages, the only way on LinkedIn itself is to open each conversation and look at who wrote last, which is the weekly check in tracking LinkedIn follow-ups without a spreadsheet. The chart at the top of this page makes that check for every conversation in your export at once.

From LinkedIn Help, as of October 2026.

What counts as an unanswered message

A conversation is unfinished when its last message got no answer and that message is not a sign-off. Age does not close it, but the chart opens on the last year, because a silence of five years is rarely something to act on. The line under each number gives the all-time total; click it, or Any age, to see everything.

The switches above the chart set what else counts. A ticked switch is included:

  • First messages (on): someone wrote and you never replied, or you wrote and they never did.
  • One-line pings (off): a single line of up to 100 characters with no question, from someone you never wrote to. "Happy birthday!" is one.
  • Pitches (off): messages you never answered that have a subject line, a link, more than 320 characters, or recruiter and vendor phrasing.
  • Sign-offs (off): the last message is 70 characters or fewer, has no question mark and starts like "thanks", "sounds good" or "talk soon", or is only an emoji.
  • Group chats (off): any conversation with more than one other person.

LinkedIn's own notices and people shown as LinkedIn Member are never counted. These rules read the text, mostly in English, and some will be wrong. Mark as settled takes one thread out of the count until you close the tab.

The numbers under the lists

Under the two lists are your habits: the share of people who wrote first and got an answer from you, the share of your first messages that got a reply, the median time each side takes to answer, and a bar per year showing where conversations ended.

What the file does not know

The export has no read receipts and no reactions, so a thumbs-up that closed a thread in real life is missing here. Deleted messages are gone. Company and job title appear only when you drop the whole ZIP, because they come from Connections.csv. Silence is counted to the day you load the file, so an export from last month makes every gap a month longer.

Questions about unanswered messages

Short answers about the file and the chart.

Can LinkedIn show me messages I haven't replied to?

No. The inbox can filter by unread, connections, InMail, starred and archived, and none of those means unanswered. A message you read and never answered looks the same as a finished conversation. Your data export is where you can work it out, by checking who sent the last message in each thread.

How do I download my LinkedIn messages?

On LinkedIn go to Me → Settings & Privacy → Data privacy → Download my data and choose "Download larger data archive". The first ZIP arrives by email within minutes and the complete one within about 24 hours. Drop the ZIP on this page as it is.

Is my messages.csv uploaded anywhere?

No. The page opens the file inside your browser and does all the work there. LinkedAsk has no copy of it. Close the tab and it is gone. You can check: load this page, turn off your Wi-Fi, then drop your file. It still works.

How does the tool know which messages are mine?

The file does not mark the account owner. When you drop the whole ZIP, the tool uses the name in Profile.csv. With messages.csv alone it takes the person who appears in the most conversations. If it picked wrong, choose your name in the top bar and everything is counted again.

How long is too long to reply to a LinkedIn message?

There is no rule. A reply within two weeks rarely needs an apology, which is why that stretch of the chart is shaded. After that, one line about the delay is enough. For your own unanswered messages, one follow-up between three days and three weeks later is the usual window, and that stretch is shaded below the line.

More free tools for the same ZIP: message search, the network map and connections at a company.

Keep the ledger current without another export

LinkedAsk records your LinkedIn activity as you browse: visits, invites, replies and who viewed you.

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